Posts Tagged ‘seduction’

Uniqueness in Communication

Monday, May 7th, 2012

One of the exercises I do in seminars is creating the perception of uniqueness. I have every participant get up and “INTRODUCE” themselves to the others. However, they may only say their name, where they are from and “one short single statement” that will cause the other people in the room to remember them. The audience then votes, YES or NO. They keep going until everyone gets a majority YES.

Hi I’m James from Canterbury and I’m and accountant is a NO.

Hi – My name is John and I sell Mary Kay and I’m not wearing any underwear is a YES.

I am not going to let any man steal my heart.

Tuesday, April 24th, 2012

You really have to put this one into context.

Has this happened before, ask.

So, are you telling me that you have been emotional hurt in a relationship or are you telling me that you grew up with this cold cold outlook on life and you have never been in a relationship except of course those in which you did not let the man steal your heart.

I just asking based on what I have heard people say. My friend said it is like playing with fire, it can be a god send or it can burn you severly.

So what happened.

Shut up and listen

Time is Precious

Sunday, April 22nd, 2012

And she said, “Time is precious. I don’t do anything for free.”

Hold on now guys, she just told you everything you need to know about her.

Your first choice to make is whether you want to play with her or just let it go.

OR of course you can start negotiating price.

My style is to make a joke out of it and let her know you are not BUYING.

Hold out your hand and say “So is mine so you can pay me for my time you are wasting now.”

Responses and Come Backs

Tuesday, April 17th, 2012

She said, “I am not looking for anything serious, I am in a relationship.

You Respond using what she give you.

I don’t know if you have already begun to notice, neither am I.

When do you want to get together tonight.

… Notice she does not know what you are responding to. Are you saying that you are not looking for anything serious also or you are in a relationship also or both.

You have answered all here questions. It is now just a matter of when tonight.

How To Talk Women Into Your Bed: Part II

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

Dear Speed Seduction Student,

In the last issue, I introduced some of the core concepts for getting really good at seducing hot women, even when you don’t have looks, social status or money.

Just to review, I taught you:

1. Focus on her feelings first. Get your mind off the behaviors you want from her(sex, undying loyalty, threesomes, etc) and put your mind and focus on what feeling states she would have to be in, in order to want to naturally give you those behaviors.

2. Realize that the key to her feelings is her imagination. Capture and lead her imagination and you can generate the intense feelings and emotions she craves.

3. The key to capturing her imagination AND emotions is how you use your language. Remember the example from last issue of romance novels; they out do every other form of fiction combined, because they appeal to women’s fantasies, imagination and emotions, even though we, as guys, would never read such stuff.

The Mystery Of Women’s “Feelings” Explained

In order to understand just how to tap into the deep feelings that women crave, like “chemistry”, attraction, desire, fascination, incredible connection I need to make the briefest of detours into a discipline called Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP. Please, please bear with me, because the next couple of paragraphs will allow you to enjoy a profound understanding of how women “tick” that will skyrocket your success with them more a new Porsche, perfect pecs, or high status and fame.

The Concept of States And ” Emotional Recipes”

One of the core ideas of NLP is that people don’t just mysteriously “get” feelings. Feelings and emotions are the end result of a process that people run on the inside of themselves, involving what they say to themselves, how they picture things in their minds, and what flows of internal physical sensations they experience inside their bodies.

Now, bear with me here, because this is both simple AND important. Think of a woman you really, REALLY want to be with.

Wouldn’t you like her to experience the following emotional “states” with you?


You would agree that those would be great for starters, yes? That, given THOSE feelings, she would be far more likely to say, “JUMP ME NOW” instead of “Let’s just be friends!”

By the way, if the only thing you hear from women is “Let’s just be friends” it is because the only feeling states she experiences around you are casual enjoyment and comfort. Not enough to get her doing the grown up!)

Are you following along so far?

Ok. For this lovely lady to experience these intense, positive feeling states with you, she has to run some kind of internal process or “recipe” to get the end result of wanting you.

An Example To Help Understand And A Half Truth Corrected And Explained

As an example, a woman might first look at you and get a bit of a tingle in her tummy. Then she might picture you and her naked. Then she might say to herself “yummm”. Then perhaps she might feel tightness in her throat, her nipples hardening, and the tingles going down to her crotch. She might picture the two of you meeting her friends and feeling a sense of pride.

The key is this: this will all flash through her body and mind in seconds, so fast in fact, that she will almost always something she is NOT consciously aware of doing.

Now, you may have heard it said that women will decide in the first ten seconds if they are going to sleep with a guy.

This is almost always NOT true. What is true is that when women DO decide to sleep with you,(whether it’s ten minutes or ten months into knowing you) they will run that process of deciding through their body and mind in LESS than ten seconds.

Ok. I think I’ve piled enough on you for now. But I want you to really re-read this newsletter another time. Maybe print it out and take it with you for a long walk, and think about the implications and how it begins to make sense of a very important piece of your life. Remember the more we can “de-mystify” women’s emotions and make them something we can bring to the surface and LINK to us, the more power, choice, and enjoyment with women we are going to have; women most guys just get to dream about.

In the next issue we’ll get into the nuts and bolts of how to actually start using your language to do this.

Until then,

P e a c e a n d p i e c e ,

R o s s

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